Category: Reflection
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This post is about a purse, but also not
I perused the showroom, on the hunt for a new fancy bag, one that would help me elevate my style. One caught my eye, in a brilliant blue and with ornate handles. It had ample space for storage and looked good. This is what I need to elevate my style. But I hesitated. I thought…
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The myth of 1 percent better
“That’s ridiculous. No one gets one percent better. If you were a salesperson and you did 1 percent better, you’d be making no money.” At that point, I cut the video. This is not the person I should take advice from. From an inability to do math alone, he’s a fool. If I could do…
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“More important things”
Gas prices are ridiculously high. There is an ongoing war. Scratch that, wars. There have been random violent attacks across cities. There is political instability. More and more people are getting laid off each day as companies lean in to AI and away from human labor. And I’m sitting here looking up mascaras. As the…
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This is the problem with you
I told the story. He waited for his chance to respond and started, “This is the problem with people like you,” What a bold way to start. “You look at your problems that you have at work and with other people and deem yourself the problem. ‘I should just try harder. I should stop being…
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No surprises here
At approximately 7:27 AM, a car zooms out in front of me in the neighborhood. I was frustrated. The driver ran the stop sign, and was forced to me to wait as he/she/someone annoying was stuck unable to turn left as the incoming traffic picked up. I grumbled, that I just needed to turn right.…
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Is your boss evil?
Thank you for taking the first step and reading this post. You are probably here because you have been asking that question, over and over again: Is my boss evil? And you’ve answered it, “Yes,” multiple times. I mean, you’ve got evidence from your overbearing workload, the snide remarks, the ways you’ve been treated, and…
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Recognizing myself in her
I complained to a loved one about my job, my boss, and all the frustrations in between. She told me, “You sound like Andy in the Devil Wears Prada.” That is when I decided to rewatch the movie for what would be the first of many times. It had nothing to do with the fashion.…
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A question
She asked it in the middle of the podcast. The question stuck with me. “If someone were to look at how you live your life now, would they be able to tell that your goals are your goals?” It felt like an attack, an assault on the dissonance between by daily schedule and my dreams.…
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What it really takes
Things I’m pretty sure I need: One more video. One more plan. Just a little bit more research. More time, more money, more knowledge, more resources. That is definitely what I need. Incorrect. What I actually need: To just start. I just have to take in a deep inhale, exhale, and get moving. I have…
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This time was different
As I walked into Louis Vuitton, a security guard greeted me. Last year, I spent time sheepishly behind the windows and then anxiously asking if it were alright if I smelled the fragrances before entering the space. This time was different. Instead of bashfully checking if I could come in, I knew I belonged there.…